There are always common themes interrelating themselves and appearing in our lives. Lately the act of surrender has been the re-appearing concecept around me, no matter where I look. I surrendered my previous ideas and notions to move across the country to start a new life. I surrendered my affliction with the pull between wanting a relationship with my family and wanting to stay away from the abuse. I surrendered to the idea that I could love my family and at the same time choose to not be around them, subject to further pain. Once separation occurred a new outlook was formed. One of unconditional love and kindness towards every living being, including my family, and most importantly, myself.
I surrendered to the notion that maybe I was good enough. That maybe I wasn’t inadequate in any way. That maybe I could find the courage within myself, to love myself. In loving myself, then the confidence to turn towards the world with an open heart. Through suffering I shut down to my experience of pain, only creating more suffering for the future. The tide now turns in the opposite direction.
I want to know your pain. I want to look you in the eyes, and say, I care. I want you to know that you are not alone. I want you to know that not only are you not alone, you are the same as everyone else. I want to give you whatever will ease your suffering. With love the fills this entire earth, I want you to be happy. I want you to heal your wounds and turn toward the sun. I want you to smile.
Can we collectively remain open to others’ pain and their joy? Can we stay open for just 1 more second before shutting down today with those around us? Can we listen?
Look into the eyes of another human being. They want happiness just as bad as you do. Same as you. Help them.